Posted by workinprogress on February 27, 2009, at 1:01:09
In reply to Funny, I treat this board a little like I do my T, posted by FindingMyDesire on February 26, 2009, at 22:22:36
Well FMD-I'd say a couple of things. It's a support board I think, so you've come to the right place if you need support. And two, you did more than just get your needs met here. You posted and shared yourself with us and I saw your post and I saw that I wasn't quite alone in all that *I* was feeling and that helped me. I connected with you, that's why I wrote earlier this month wondering where you were.
I, for one, am glad you're back. So... what's up? What do you need from us? How can I be supportive?
Try to be kind to yourself... you/we all deserve that.
((((((((((((((FMD)))))))))))))))))
- WIP
> I come to it when I'm really in need. I have little (really no) compassion for myself for having such a great need and instantly feel like how could I possibly matter to anyone, especially since I have nothing to offer that anyone would need. It's a very unsafe feeling. Gradually, over a certain amount of time (usually), I start to feel re-connected and then almost present and grounded; capable of loving others and feeling cared for in return (can't ever really be love, of course), but it's something and I actually take it in. For the moment.
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> Then I run away. Hm.
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> So, since I just cried through therapy and I won't see her for a week (we just cut back due to $) I just want to cut her off all together. So, I'm trying this post. Starting my cycle, I suppose.
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