Posted by Nadezda on December 4, 2008, at 10:30:54
In reply to Final countdown with my T :o(, posted by LadyBug on December 3, 2008, at 23:29:59
Don't leave babble, Ladybug. You don't have to add to your losses.
This is a psychology board, not a therapy board. You still have a mind and emotions, right? So you still have lots to contribute-- and we'd miss you, too.
I'm so sorry about the loss of your T. It's awfully hard to say goodbye.
But I admire what you've done in going back and repairing the breach-- and restoring the good aspects of the relationship to their place-- where they can sustain you.
You've got a boat-- but you can make it sturdier and more adventurous-- on your own-- which is a great accomplishment. But don't give up the support networks you've worked to create-- even this place.
I guess all you can do is try to take the good things and good memories and sense of your T';s presence with you-- and keep that alive. But it is terribly sad to lose someone, in this abrupt way, without any choice.
If you do feel you can't come back, at least for a while, remember that you can always change your mind--
best, Nadezda
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