Posted by Dinah on September 28, 2008, at 13:05:57
In reply to Do you think your T really .....?, posted by JayMac on September 27, 2008, at 15:40:24
At this point, yes. I'd say he knows me as well as my husband does. And since I've known my husband since high school, that's saying a lot.
But it took a very long time. We're very different people and we see the world in very different ways. It took him a while to understand the Dinah way of seeing the world and to speak Dinah. For years he may have understood the words, but he didn't understand the meaning.
He still looks blank every once in a while, but *I* know *him* well enough now to ask if he's having a hard time understanding, and he knows me well enough to admit that he is.
It happens. But for me at least, it did take time.
poster:Dinah
thread:854410
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