Posted by 10derHeart on September 10, 2008, at 0:53:54
In reply to an IMHO post, posted by lucie lu on September 9, 2008, at 22:54:47
I understand your view, lucie, but I am often, no, almost always, incapable of "trying extra hard to make the effort" to do as you suggest. I wish I could. In the beginning I could - sometimes. Then, for whatever the reason (anxiety-related, I think for not totally sure yet) I couldn't any more.
I'm sorry.
What I've done is choose not to post hardly ever, even when I *really* want to, exactly to avoid this very thing. Funny - I still feel badly about the last time, and the time before that, when I know I didn't reply to people's replies. Really badly. I even remember who the posters are, and am so afraid they resent me or something.
I'm glad you raised the issue - it could be a great discussion.
I'm sorry.
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