Posted by 10derHeart on September 10, 2008, at 0:46:15
In reply to I disagree - respectfully, posted by Daisym on September 9, 2008, at 23:28:20
Thank you so much, Daisy. This is an ongoing issue for me, and I have finally figured out (very possibly just now) 90% of the reason I slowly but surely have ceased posting. When I do, this fear of expectations of behavior I *cannot* possibly promise, or even promise to try to change, often hurts a lot more than the thing I posted about...
>It has evolved into this reply to each person, which is why, I think, some people don't post often.
Yes.
>Sometimes we post and then run away.
I so, so need to be able to do this safely. I know I can here. I don't always understand *why* I can, but I can.
poster:10derHeart
thread:851256
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