Posted by lucie lu on September 8, 2008, at 13:25:23
In reply to Re: Feeling okay, feeling like I don't need T » lemonaide, posted by Partlycloudy on September 8, 2008, at 12:33:03
PC, sounds like you have an awful lot on your plate right now. And I'm real sorry to hear about the health problems with your in-laws. Whether one is close to in-laws or not, problems like that tend to create a tsunami that hits every member of the family. Everyone needs support although not everyone can give it - or use it, as you say. My DH was rased similarly and in times of trouble, all those feelings go underground - which tends to trigger me, etc etc. It is extremely stressful all around. I agree with Phillipa's suggestion that the back problems may be exacerbated by the stress you are under. Will your insurance pay for things like physical therapy and especially, massage? After a session with my massage therapist, I almost always feel really good and it picks up my mood, at least for a while. Sometimes even care from a nice clinician or other caring health professional can help if they can extend some of that sense of being cared about to you. It works that way for me anyway.Take care and I hope things look up for you soon.
Best, Lucie
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