Posted by sunnydays on August 6, 2008, at 19:28:04
In reply to Re: x » antigua3, posted by Lemonaide on August 6, 2008, at 15:14:17
It kind of sounds like to me that maybe you were really hoping to meet with old T. However, you did think at one point that it was best to let old T and new T talk, and that you trusted new T's judgment. How come you don't trust his judgment now that the answer is to not talk to old T? I wouldn't want my T's talking about me either - they just know the lingo so even though they may not tell each other specific things, I think sometimes just the language they use can suggest inferences to each other.
I'm sorry you are hurting so much. It sounds like you have a lot of hard, painful work to do with your current T to deal with your anger at him, your anger at old T, and to grieve what happened with old T. Good luck.
sunnydays
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