Posted by Looney Tunes on July 27, 2008, at 14:50:49
In reply to URGE to dress provocatively in therapy..., posted by stellabystarlight on July 27, 2008, at 11:09:52
Personally, I think this is a problem.
You are obviously trying to get a response from your T, especially if you do not dress so provocatively elsewhere.I think this is one of those "slippery slope" indicators and I don't think your T has handled appropiately. On one hand telling you to dress less provocatively, on the other telling you that you look sexy. I don't think any male T should be commenting on a females client's dress in that sense as to say "you look sexy or great." Not appropriate. Not even esteem building.
You need to put on some sweat-pants and a sweat-shirt and go to T and talk about your need to seduce him and destroy the relationship.
If he does not handle it appropiately, get another T. The erotic transferance/countertransferance if not handled properally will destroy you and possiblity his career...that is horrible.
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