Posted by stellabystarlight on July 27, 2008, at 14:10:42
In reply to Re: URGE to dress provocatively in therapy... » Phillipa, posted by Hermitian on July 27, 2008, at 13:27:51
You're right Hermitian. How I want to dress is one of the reasons why I'm seeing a therapist. You got me thinking about how I should dress...and I'm surprised that I don't really know. I do like stylish clothing and dress tastefully, but I just have an overwhelming urge to visually seduce my T in the most provocative way. Yes, I need to talk to him about this. I wonder if you're right about my subconscious trying to sabotage this doctor-patient relationship...interesting.
I'm so wrapped up in erotic
transference/countertransference with my T right now that I can't see straight. Yeah, this is how I always related to men, so it's very difficult to untangle my head.Thanks for the feedback.
stellabystarlight
> Wait a second. HOW you want to dress is one reason why you are seeing a therapist. How you SHOULD dress is how you should actually dress.
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> You can tell the guy about the fantasy stuff without actually engaging in it.
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> You're wasting your bucks and asking for trouble if you sashay in like a...
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