Posted by Dinah on July 25, 2008, at 9:15:52
In reply to Re: T: Lying on top of me!-Bizarre stuff, posted by sassyfrancesca on July 25, 2008, at 6:29:53
That does sound odd. Does he seem to be moving toward the crumbling of his defenses? Have things been getting more intimate lately?
My intuitive feel would have been that he wouldn't be overly willing to bend boundaries at a convention full of his peers that he isn't willing to break in the privacy of the therapy room. I'm sure he would have liked to ask you to dance.
But how on earth did he come to lie on top of you when he won't even hug you? It's hard for me to picture a graceful situation to get from hands off to lying on top. I keep having these unpleasant mental images involving some sort of lunge and grab. You mentioned wrestling. Was he trying to teach you some holds? Self defense? If so, perhaps he should leave that to someone who is a professional in that field if he doesn't want to give mixed messages.
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