Posted by crushedout on March 13, 2008, at 12:09:35
In reply to Re: Monday, posted by annierose on March 13, 2008, at 6:41:45
Thanks, annierose, for your honesty. I know you are telling me things you know I don't necessarily want to hear, so it's hard. But it's good for me to hear them.Couple things happened over the week: one was that she didn't apologize right away--I think if she had I wouldn't have built up so much anger at her. Second, Abby's story scared me (her T terminated her) and I wanted to decide to reject her first. I guess I'm scared of abandonment.
I think there was a third thing, too, but now I can't remember what it was. Anyway, yes, this is a good learning experience for me. But as you'll recall, my last T was one I had to leave without processing it with her, because she wasn't safe.
Sometimes it's hard to know what the right thing to do is. How many chances you give a person. You know?
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