Posted by seldomseen on March 13, 2008, at 7:42:38
In reply to Monday, posted by crushedout on March 12, 2008, at 22:50:30
I'm with Annierose on this end, I say stick it out for at least a few more sessions and see if you can work this out with her
I think I now understand the reversal of her stance if you found out something about her kids
While you may know that it was innocuous, she may not have understood it and got her hackles up
No excuse for her treating your problems flippantly, but she did apologize
I've learned through years in my therapy that I will never find a relationship that is free from hurt - that's impossible - the hurt is inevitable
People are people
The key is learning to tolerate the hurt and working through it, while still valuing the relationship
It's hard to do, but worth the effort in the end
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