Posted by rskontos on October 11, 2007, at 15:48:22
In reply to confusing feelings about T...not good fit?, posted by B2chica on October 11, 2007, at 12:41:38
B2c, this is rk I am not much of an expert mine just started coming up where I can hear them not seeing them yet but my T who has had alot of DD patients told me that I must make them feel calm. Not to try to control or yell at them but to I guess parent them in a way to make them feel safe since they didn't get that as a kid or teenager. To talk them down either outloud or inside your head or in a journal whatever works. I don't know what she would do if she was present since that hasn't happen. Mine is a female. I didn't have a preference, but I can see how if you have had a bad experience with one sex or the other you might prefer the opposite one the next time. I really don't think you should stop T though. You might want to explore another T one with DD experience. Maybe you should talk to T to ask her about her experience just to let your people know that you can handle their safety too. They do need to know they are safe with you, this is something my T told me. Maybe this helps. I don't know....i am new to this too.....
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