Posted by rskontos on October 5, 2007, at 11:50:03
In reply to Oh Man I do dumb stuff sometimes!, posted by LadyBug on October 5, 2007, at 11:16:12
Ladybug, IMHO she needs to be flexible. You are an adult and yes yes you broke one of her rules but since you sent it to her as an email she could have just deleted it. There are no email rules, as I tell my complaining husband all the time, that states you must read all emails sent to you. She could have seen that it came from you, deleted it and called you to tell you that you broke her rule, she didn't read it and next session bring it to T and that is that. No harm no foul. No getting you drawers in a wad either. But that is just my two cents and I am not a therapist. I might have done what you did and asked for forgiveness instead of permission too.
From another perspective you might ask her why can't she be a little flexible since you don't do this like all the time, just this once you thought it was important to you and what was going on in your life. If she can't bend alittle then.........I might bolt on just my thoughts.........Rkontos
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