Posted by gazo on May 27, 2007, at 8:32:38
In reply to whoaaa anxiety (work related.. long), posted by wishingstar on May 27, 2007, at 0:29:58
i think you did just fine. Teens just need contact emotionally. She called because wanted someone to care and you do. Having lunch with her Monday cements that. i used to watch sappy tv shows and listen to song lyrics to try and figure out problems (no sh*t) and i had no one i could connect with. You'll be surprised how resourceful many kids can be when they feel someone gives a crap. You are a catalyst for them.
things to try (and i am just throwing ideas here):
get her to write about events and how they make her feel
do these kids have access to community support groups or programs?
maybe there is something she could volunteer at that would help others - that is a great way to learn about coping, an animal shelter or kids hospital?
something to build self confidence... like an art class, or something sport related?i don't know... i think you did exactly right thing in the moment. The rest is just random sh*t i am throwing out there..
you do better than you think... maybe you need to internalize that and pass it on?
poster:gazo
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