Posted by ElaineM on May 9, 2007, at 22:26:41
In reply to Re: out of it » ElaineM, posted by gazo on May 9, 2007, at 8:56:50
thanks for the support gazo. You're right, I don't know you -- I've been rather absent lately.
>>>>can you at least tell the male T that there were things you confided in the female T that you just cannot talk about with him, not yet and maybe not ever? Can you tell him it is just not in your abilities?
It's amazing that you said this, I was thinking the exact same thing on the way to my session today. Was feeling pretty desperate. I'm worried I'd hurt his feelings by saying that she's heard "heart stuff" that I've chosen not to tell him. I think it may be worth it though -- give him a small heads-up, or sorts. Maybe I'll do that tomorrow. I'm scared.
>>>>my T has told me that any communications from others that i don't want him to read he will just shred instantly. Maybe your male T will respect your wishes to not have certain topics be part of your relationship right now. Surely he would know how to handle that.
I'd love to trust him to do that, though I think it would take a saint to not even scan something. Plus it'd be a big risk -- if he wasn't honorable, he could end up reading about himself. And that would be the beginning of the end. Complete disaster. Especially since things have been going so well between us lately -- so productive.
nice to meet you.
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