Posted by annierose on April 13, 2007, at 11:47:30
In reply to thoughts about detaching from old T, posted by pegasus on April 13, 2007, at 9:19:39
Try not to compare the two therapists --- you are right. I don't think you can just transfer the feelings you had for one person and assume you will feel the same for the second. Each relationship is unique. Instead of thinking about how different your current therapist is from your first one, take him/her as he/she is in that room with you.
When I left my first therapist and sought treatment later, I felt the same. I was more attached to the first therapist. But I did gain valuable insight and help from subsequent therapist. And it was okay that those strong feelings were not there for me --- actually --- it was a relief.
Loyalty is a good thing. So is acceptance. I hope your phone session is soothing.
Annie
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