Posted by gazo on April 5, 2007, at 20:19:50
In reply to cluck cluck cluck, posted by gazo on April 5, 2007, at 14:57:24
hi again guys... i would appreciate feedback on the following, it's a bit out of the letter i am re-writing for my new T.
"As i was about to leave you said something about how you also wanted to be careful about me becoming dependent... or something like that.
You say “.. I don’t want you to become dependent.”
i hear “I don’t want to have to put up with you.”i don’t want to be dependent as much as i feel i need to be allowed to be. i need to be able to trust you far more than i need to worry about being dependent. i just can’t allow you access in any meaningful way if i have to concern myself with how attached or dependent i might become. i think ***** had too much concern about me becoming dependent and by doing so caused me to be more focussed on him than on working on me. "
poster:gazo
thread:747258
URL: http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/psycho/20070324/msgs/747322.html