Posted by annierose on January 10, 2007, at 22:19:00
In reply to Re: Being Angry, posted by Daisym on January 10, 2007, at 19:53:43
the answer s*cks of course and it's one you know all too well. you have to keep working with those feelings again and again.
it's always odd when we are working on the same stuff in our therapy - but with our own agendas and pathways. my t explained yesterday, "you need to start seeing me sitting here and not your mother criticizing you. i'm not her and i certainly don't think like her."
in general, humans paste past experiences on the present ones because those neutral foundations were built on faulty information (i.e. our dysfunctional parents). instead of experience your t's warmth (which sneaks in now and then just to confuse you), you experience rejection.
it's so darn hard. but you are doing it. you are talking about it. and you'll get to talk about it again tomorrow.
(((((((dasiy))))))))))
what is your favorite thing to do at camp comfort? right now sleep would be at the stop of my list followed by staying in my pj's all day doing completely nothing!
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