Posted by Tamar on June 21, 2006, at 19:12:58
In reply to I give up! ******S.I. TRIGGER*******, posted by ElaineM on June 21, 2006, at 16:46:59
Elaine,
I am so sorry it didn’t go the way you needed it to go.
This is now an emergency situation. I hope you can get an emergency appointment.
Cutting yourself and taking stuff is NOT trivial, especially under these circumstances. You need urgent help. You need it as soon as you can get it. If necessary, please go to the hospital.
You are in danger. I imagine you find that hard to believe, but it is nevertheless true. You need real help from people in real life. I know it is hard to trust people. I know it is hard to disclose anything. But this really is an emergency. You can refuse to talk to anyone until you can access someone you can trust. If you say you are trying to escape an abusive situation, and if you insist on speaking to a woman, people will take you seriously without your having to tell the whole story. At least, I hope so. And there should be SOMEONE available to speak to you.
Can you at least call the Samaritans? They have people who are trained to help.
Please take care of yourself. We care very much about you and we’re devastated that you didn’t get the opportunity you needed to talk things through. Circumstance can be so cruel. But you are NOT a loser. You have been hurt by other people. THEY are responsible for their actions.
Is there any way you can find some comfort? I know it’s difficult. I’m sending you big safe hugs if you want them. (((((Elaine)))))
Please check in when you get the chance. I’ll be thinking of you.
Tamar
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