Posted by Dinah on June 18, 2006, at 13:42:51
In reply to Re: As could be expected., posted by Frida on June 18, 2006, at 13:26:43
Well, in his defense, I was pretty cold and matter of fact when I talked to him. It was the only way I could be sure of keeping control. He was matching my tone, I guess.
Not owning up... Well, he tends to be defensive. But a lot of times, he softens and owns up to his part of things over time.
It seemed easy to him. It seemed like he didn't care. But I suspect at some level it must have been difficult for him to hear these things from someone who's been so attached for years. I'm guessing his defenses were way up.
For some reason, I'm not really angry any more. Just sad that things have gotten to this point. And that he didn't make better, kinder, choices.
poster:Dinah
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