Posted by AuntieMel on June 16, 2006, at 10:34:05
In reply to Re: Not drunk yet, but working on it » orchid, posted by Dinah on June 15, 2006, at 20:55:47
I would drop him in a heartbeat over this. A major life decision, based on not knowing all the information?
You see, my defensive mechanism wouldn't allow me to give someone like that a second chance to hurt me. When I'm injured I can form a scap pretty quick, but that scab can open up quickly when I'm re-exposed. My solution is to eliminate the exposure.
You need to put yourself first, Dinah, and take care of yourself.
> Why not "over this". Don't you think "this" was a bad thing to do?
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> Don't you think it was a bad thing to do to actively convince me to stay in N.O. knowing that I was expecting that I could see him twice a week, yet knowing that that was really iffy for the next two months? And what will he do next? Go out of the country again for a month? Take another day job?
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> God only knows he should take a day job because he shouldn't be seeing clients.
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> Don't you think it was a bad thing to sit in a session with my husband a week ago Monday and tell my husband that now that he was back in town we'd be meeting twice a week again? When he knew he wouldn't be available except at night for that second session? And we've been through this before. Things come up where he's assigned in such a way that he can't be back to town at night to see clients. Last time, he could see me at night half the time at best, maybe less. In fact for sure less because he had the job for three or four months and I saw him at night three or four time.
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> He sat there and misled, if not outright lied, to my husband and myself. In such a way that affected a major life decision.
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> You don't think that's worth terminating him over?
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> I think it's worth a hell of a lot more than termination.
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