Posted by annierose on June 1, 2006, at 19:18:05
In reply to Re: Is it always more important to talk about it? » annierose, posted by All Done on May 31, 2006, at 13:20:19
I remember a few months ago, you were comtemplating adding an additional session each week. Have you made a decision? I do know financially it can be a strain. My insurance is due to run out sometime over the summer and I keep having inner dialogues with myself to figure out what will I do. My brain has yet to come to a reasonable decision since winning the lottery won't happen (I do not buy tickets), and the chances of me finding a treasure is never going to happen. But I really love going 3x per week.
I do remember when he called you. That was so wonderful. He is a keeper!! No wonder you want more from him, and to know more about him. But then he wouldn't/couldn't be your T anymore. This special relationship you have would change suddenly. Don't get me wrong, I have those same yearnings wanting something more from her. But what would I lose if that happened? One of the questions I recently asked her regarding a similar discussion, "I know we could never have lunch together, or be friends, but would I be the type of person you would want to have lunch with, or get to know?" And without a second hesitation, she simply answered, "Yes, without a doubt." That warmed my heart.
I'm netural on the hug issue. I do think a hug can be just a hug. When I went through my divorce (remember the starter marriage?) I saw a therapist who would hug me on occasion. I'm not a person who likes to be touched, but I tolerated it, and knew she meant well, and it was appropriate (not icky or anything). Often, I think the "no hugging" policy has more to do with protecting the therapist from any future law suits if the theraputic relationship sours.
I'm doing good. Thanks for asking.
Annierose
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