Posted by madeline on May 18, 2006, at 7:25:05
In reply to I'm in a really scary place right now, posted by milly on May 17, 2006, at 17:39:12
Milly, you know I care for you right? So I'm just going to give it to you straight.
1. This man ruined the first part of your life, are you going to give him the power to ruin the rest of it as well? Think about it. You can finally control the situation. Are you going to let him "take" you again?
2. This is NOT just about you and what you want. So many people would be horribly upset if you acted out and did something rash. I know that if you did something, I would be devastated. I can't remember right now if you have children, but for heaven's sake think about THEM!
3. Do what you need to do on Saturday to keep yourself away from this man. Sit in the police station, sit in your pdocs driveway, office or living room. Tie yourself to the bed, I don't know, but let that day pass by without incident to prove to yourself that you are strong enough NOT to do this.
I do understand how you feel, really I do, but it is NOT right.
Please take the steps you need to in order to keep yourself safe from this man again.
I'm here.
Maddie
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