Posted by alexandra_k on November 29, 2005, at 22:57:45
In reply to I'm back » alexandra_k, posted by muffled on November 29, 2005, at 22:04:01
hmm.
if she has a 'mean streak' thats probably her hurts... and sometimes when people hurt they lash out and so when she is hurting... well, that might be when she lashes out at you.and it can be really very hard to be kind and patient with someone who is lashing out...
but maybe... thats what she really wants / needs.
there might be some truth to what she says...
but maybe she needs to learn something about being more understanding of your perspective / situaiton / feelings etc.
sometimes it isn't so much WHAT is said but the WAY it is said.
and if you feel really very hurt in response to what she is saying...
that says more about her (being hurt) than it does baout you (because she has found some truth about you)it can be hard to get along...
yeah, maybe go for a walk in the forest...
sometimes a run can vent some of that energy too:-)
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