Posted by 10derHeart on November 25, 2005, at 17:22:22
In reply to Re: Just for now.... » 10derHeart, posted by LadyBug on November 16, 2005, at 7:09:38
Your post touched me, LB. If I remember right, once you came to Babble, you did post a little about what that period was like for you and your T....I think? And from what I recall and what you wrote here, your situation was worse. Much worse. That's not me minimizing my own pain, either. I really think so. It was just to much, too many things, and you were too fragile. (Hope that came out the good way I meant it.) But this is just one of the reasons your post helps. Because if you two could get through, around, past, over, that....well, I'll be fine.I already have some understanding of his position. I need more. He's being great about letting me talk it to death, so thank goodness for that. It sucks every time we have to realize our T's can't be perfect and may sometimes HAVE to make a big error to grow and learn themselves. Wish it wasn't that way, but it is. The risks of becoming close to any other fellow human, I guess. But it's worse with a T. - the therapy framework is so precious, so precarious, and so insanely special to many of us....like you don't know that!
I'm glad I'm here with people like you. You take care, LadyBug.
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