Posted by muffled on November 21, 2005, at 22:01:45
In reply to Re: I wrote this to my inside kid. » muffled, posted by Tamar on November 21, 2005, at 18:13:14
> I think what you wrote is really lovely. You are so good to her. I hope you're not too disheartened that she doesn't believe you. I think she finds it hard to trust. She's just a kid, and she's been hurt. It may take a while before she can believe you.
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> If she's in a lot of pain, maybe she needs to know you're willing to listen to her and that even if you can't take all the pain away, you would if you could. But you can love her and accept her just as she is...
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****Tamar, I think you hit the nail on the head. I been patronizing her. She's not stupid. I think she's pretty pissed at me. Not sure what about exactly. Maybe alot of things.
I been sort of just sidestepping just how her pain is. Not too sure bout that somehow. Guess I'm afraid. Maybe she knows that and that puts her off too.
Guess I just goto keep working on me, and when the time is right she might decide I'm ok and stop hiding. In the meantime I guess I goto be patient.
Grrrrrrr. Not so good in the patience dept. especially when it comes to myself.
Thanks Tamar, you did it again. I wonder, is it a gift you have?
Take special care of yourself right now. And thanks for taking care of me too! :)
I wish I could make you better right now:(
But I guess these things take time.
I sit beside you quietly in your sad time.
Muffled.
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