Posted by Jen Star on November 10, 2005, at 18:15:11
In reply to Thanks all the thing is he does it very innocently, posted by orchid on November 10, 2005, at 4:42:04
hi Orchid,
the thing IS sexual, since it's 2 adults touching and lying together, and since you're having weird feelings about sex with your hubby. Something doesn't have to involve intercourse to be "sexual." Sometimes even a glance or a caress can be very sensual/sexual in nature!It IS abuse, because you don't like it, and because it's abnormal, and basically -- you don't want it.
It IS abuse. It's not right. And it's OK to stand up for yourself - do not permit it any longer! It's NOT innocent -- and it's ridiculous to think it would cure arthritis.
Yikes.
Orchid, I hope you're OK.
JenStar
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