Posted by TofuEmmy on June 24, 2005, at 20:32:26
In reply to Daisy - I am worried for you, posted by pinkeye on June 23, 2005, at 17:37:10
I found your post so very upsetting to read.
Termination is such a deeply painful topic - to bring it up, out of the blue like this made my skin run cold. Daisy is no where near terminating with her T. She is in the midst of such difficult work right now, that is the very LAST thing that would happen to her. (((Daisy)))
Additionally, I think we need to be EXTREMELY cautious is even coming close to criticizing someone's therapist. We all know how deep our feeling run for our T's. If someone suggested anything negative about MY therapist....anger would be stirred, and tears would flow.
Of course, people may ASK for comments on their T's behavior, and that leaves the door ajar for CAREFULLY commenting.
I realize that you had a horrendous termination with your ex-T, and I'm very sorry that occured. And you have stated that you are projecting here - I agree. I also read that Daisy was so upset by your post that she has been unable to reply herself. What I haven't seen is a hearfelt apology to Daisy for saying anything upsetting at this difficult time.
I care a great deal for my friend Daisy. She has offered me such gracious support. I felt compelled to rise up and shield her by posting these comments.
Thank you.
emmy
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