Posted by happyflower on May 27, 2005, at 16:13:46
In reply to Re: My T has amazed me and my husband, posted by Jazzed on May 27, 2005, at 15:38:49
Yup, my T is great! I am very lucky that I found a good one first try. He is 50 and has a ton of experience. Plus he works a lot with kids, you gotta love that! lol He has never said that I couldn't call him, but I am sure if I did it too much he would say something. I am going to talk about my needs and if I am going overboard on Tues.. He knows that because of my past I have trouble trusting anyone so the fact that I am trusting him to help me might make him feel like I am making progress or it might scare him because he doesn't want to screw up on me because that would really leave me not trusting anyone probably ever.He probably has to be careful with me. ( this is my attempt at being a T) I guess it is his call, I am glad I am not a T! My english teacher would love my run on sentences! lol He knows for me to even admit my true feelings of trusting him and allowing him to help me means I have progressed big time. He and all you babblers have shown me that maybe I can trust people again, make some friends, and have a real support system. I have a great husband, but I need female friends too, and I think I am almost ready to socialize more. I am scared of getting hurt, but at least I am allowing myself to be open to the idea. I guess ultimately it is up to my T to set the boundries and do what is best for me. But I am going to talk about this next time, so I know what to expect. I will let you all know how it goes. I enjoy ready your responses and they have helped big time, any more ideas for me to think about?
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