Posted by rainbowbrite on May 12, 2005, at 15:13:53
In reply to Re: I think I have some serious issues **trigger** » rainbowbrite, posted by pinkeye on May 12, 2005, at 15:03:40
you know what I think, I think there is nothing wrong with you besides the fact that you were maybe not exposed to the best role models. How can we have healthy rea;ltionships when we are not exposed to them...it is so frustrating.
and you may not have made the best decisions in your life? i dont know, but Im sure you have not made a huge mess of things and besides I believe it always takes 2 when it comes to relationships.
If you look deep down inseide yourself for answers and use your gut you may have more than you think you do. How content are you in this marriage? I know it is so hard, I hate making decisions more than anything. Have you tried couples therapy?
I just can not emphasize enough how it is not ok to physically hurt another person. It seems like your husband was receptive to what you said about hitting his mother, maybe that approach is a good one to try to help him see what he is doing is so wrong.Take care of yourself
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