Posted by happyflower on May 11, 2005, at 11:55:39
In reply to Re: Zero Feelings (Possible Trigger), posted by Annierose on May 11, 2005, at 11:42:00
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> I do have a daughter, and it is with her that I struggle the most with. I always thought it was because of her strong personality (compared with my easy going son), but I now know, her exeperieces are constant sources of triggers for me.
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I know how that feels, my daughter has my mothers eyes and some of her expressions and it gets to me sometimes. I love her so much, and would never hold it against her, its not her fault, but I have to make sure I am treating her fairly like a daughter and not let my (mothers(my abuser) expressions) influence me with her. Sometimes it is so hard.
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