Posted by pinkeye on March 4, 2005, at 19:04:05
In reply to Re: Sad week :-( » pinkeye, posted by messadivoce on March 4, 2005, at 18:51:31
> But real relationships DO end. People die. They move away. Maybe my T wants me to lessen contact so he won't get in the way of developing relationship that are more multi-demensional. This makes sense in my head, but not my heart of course. But I know our relationship was real...it just couldn't be sustained. It's so different from any other relationship you'll ever have. No way to categorize it, really.
THis is something which my brain would never understand I think. Real relaitonships don't end like this.. unless things go sour or one person dies.Somehow I have difficulty even now coming to terms with this - it has never been easy for me to say goodbye to people, and I just am not able to say goodbye to my ex T. It really breaks me. To think he won't care anymore, that he would wish not to hear from me - is something more than I can digest. It almsot feels like how I would feel if my parents ask me to not contact them again. And I am not able to digest it.
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