Posted by Bent on March 4, 2005, at 7:13:52
In reply to Re: T and Valentine's Day, posted by LittleGirlLost on March 3, 2005, at 13:49:29
Hi LGL.
This is tough for me but I had to respond to your post. While I think maybe our reasons are different, I too have similar thoughts about my T's sex life. It weirds me out that I think about it but I do. I have never talked to her about this. I cant imagine bringing it up. I think it may be just a part of my curiosity and my need to know that she is human too. I am not at all sexually attracted to her but I wonder if she feels things like I do -on a sexual level. I have wondered how often she has sex. It seems so weird to me to think this. I feel like a freak. One thing that I realized from your post was that I dont worry about her husband being anything but just about perfect. I dont worry for her safety, in fact I think her husband treats her wonderfully and knows just what she wants. I have no basis for these thoughts - this is simply what my mind has created and I dont know why. Now I feel weird having written this...to send or not to send??
poster:Bent
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