Posted by gardenergirl on December 12, 2004, at 20:20:14
In reply to Re: Dream #1...you asked for it, Daisy! :-) » gardenergirl, posted by Daisym on December 11, 2004, at 20:35:12
> Hmmm...well, good girls tend to want everyone to follow the rules too.
Yes, I get very angry when others break the rules, especially if they get away with it. I just can't get over how some people can be so cavalier.
>The fact that he was smoking dope or something sounds like you think he might be flaky?
LOL! Oh my. That is the understatement of the year. I'll have to post about me bro sometime. Lots and lots of fodder there.
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> And the bath - can't get what you want from your mother. And she doesn't have it to give. And it is something so ordinary (hot water) that EVERYONE else gets from their mother. I like the screaming but not being heard. That sounds like me and my mom. I would think the bath = comfort and you can't take one (find comfort) at your mom's house.That part is exactly right. He said the same thing. Although we also very briefly speculated about "being in hot water" and how I wasn't able to do that. 'twas end of the session, though.
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> What did your therapist say?He seemed to think that evicting my bro was a stand in for evicting my dad. Not entirely sure what he means by that or if I agree. We didn't get to talk about it much. I'd almost rather evict bro, and mom is certainly more a part of the problem, especially still now, than dad. But who knows? At first I thought he was going for an Electra type thing, but that doesn't make any sense.
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