Posted by fallsfall on April 13, 2004, at 7:58:11
In reply to Talked with the T., posted by Speaker on April 12, 2004, at 20:03:59
Good for you, Speaker! It really is amazing how there are so many things that we "hear" that just aren't quite the way they are. At least we find out about them in therapy. How much do we do this in the rest of our relationships? Scary thought.
I can really relate to the abandonment fears. I'm sorry that you have them too. I think that they take an awful lot of work (with a lot of pain) and a long time. But I do believe that it can come out that we can stop fearing abandonment as much as we do now. Remember, you aren't alone.
Falls.
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