Posted by obSession on March 24, 2004, at 18:56:22
In reply to Re: resonating like a gong! » Racer, posted by lonelygirl on March 24, 2004, at 17:40:42
Cool , to see my thread is going so well!
I have empathy for people who are in love with their T .........
im obsessed with mine not in a pysical context yet I cant deal with the obsession , if I were in love with my T i would go mad, even though i already am.one questin i want to know is , has anyone here who has had feelings for there T , actually have had a fantasy played out at all even in the smallest context and do u care to share.
wat i reckon is that the idea about the "idealised object" so to speak is better in fantasy in reality , would love to be proven wrong though.
can the fantasy match up to the reality?
or does the fantasy always win and make the reality disappointing.....i have been able to actual get older men much older so ive been fortunate enough to have had a few good experiences like that ......
i think with my T its sooooooooo good mentally that makes me not in love with him because it is sooooooooooooo much better than any crush or erotic transferance or watever else could EVER BE!
mental orgasmsssssssssssssssssss :Pwould love to hear what u guys have to say .....
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