Posted by Fallen4myT on March 24, 2004, at 17:14:25
In reply to resonating like a gong! » Fallen4myT, posted by Racer on March 24, 2004, at 16:06:48
Lmao Racer, loved your post, I am oddly lucky because the love bug I have towards my T makes it easier for me to talk to him. O.K nix the talk on sex with him and how DEEPLY I feel for him but minus that I chat away on anything. WEAK in the knees (i THINK OF A PRETTY COUNTRY SOUND WHEN I HEAR THAT..AND I AM A CREED KINDA GAL) you say, man I know that feeling . The age deal comes in handy..ie, being older than 29 because my guess is many of us have more experience with break ups and dumping men, being dumped than we did when we were 24 say. Just my 2 cents and I HAVE A SPECIAL SEAL OF APPROVAL SO I HAVE/HAD SOMETHING VALID TO SAY :)
> It's not my T, it's my pdoc: again, he was assigned to me, and he's absolutely everything that makes me get weak around men. Does it have anything to do with the structure of the relationship? That he's in a position of benign authority over me? Probably. But it has a whole lot to do with that whole Young Jimmy Stewart thing he's got going on. (Just my luck: he's probably gay. The universe, if I haven't mentioned it, hates me. Worse yet, he might be straight -- as if that would do me any good.) Would I take him wrapped in a bright green ribbon for my birthday? In a heartbeat. (Let me think about that for a minute: in a nanosecond.)
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> It does interfere with my ability to communicate with him, although I think I might be getting better about that. (Of course, I got so freaked out recently that I cancelled my appointment with him. I do have another, though, so maybe I'll see if it's easier...)
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> And I, too, am older than the posters above -- almost as old as both combined. I don't know what effect that has on this, though.
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