Posted by Willow on May 22, 2003, at 8:15:55
In reply to Impotence, posted by Dinah on May 21, 2003, at 18:45:03
> Worst of all, he says that I do have choices (meaning that I could quit seeing him.)
That is one option of many. Why would you think that is what he meant considering what you wrote previously? Did you ever have to make those flow charts when in grade school? A square box in the middle, then all the ideas flow out of it like bubbles. Try thinking out of the box. Once you get the hang of it, add in budgeting or cost analysis. How much of your emotional energy are you spending on this one point? Is it really worth it?
> I know I'm being petty and childishHow you react is up to YOU. How someone else reacts is up to them. And in reality the move is a done deal. You can choose to pout, stomp, or accept it and move on. You mention the cost of therapy, don't spend your time there analyzing his choices but instead why you feel the way you do. This in my opinion would be more cost effective, but then it's your choice.
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