Posted by rskontos on October 30, 2007, at 9:27:11
In reply to The death of my sister Kelly 24, posted by footmom on October 29, 2007, at 15:18:28
Footmom, Your despair is normal. The death of a beloved sister and now your mom is sick is very scary. This is normal and your fears are justified. I am so sorry all this has happened and your grief is very real and hard to handle. I understand your lack of joy when death is seemly all around. I don't know how to make you feel better about death. But I understand death, my mom died when I was 27 and my grandmother just died a few months ago. It is a hard to deal with as we tend as a society not to talk about it. Don't feel back about not going to the funeral. They are for the living not the dead and you don' t have to go especially if you don't want to see your father. I have no feelings right now for my dad either. He doesn't deserve you so don't sweat. Just deal with your grief and be kind to yourself. Take care. Keep posting. I am mostly on Psycho-Babble or Social so don't in sometime. Take care. rk
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