Posted by muffled on December 17, 2006, at 16:53:39
In reply to i'm so upset, deep regrets and pain, posted by kerria on December 17, 2006, at 1:41:57
I will hold your hand kerria.
As best I can.
What your dad did, was his choice, and mebbe what he needed to do. There is no way you could have stopped him. If it wasn't one way, it would have been another.
Please don't give up.
Your parts ARE people. They can be worked with.
I dunno how, but you need to find the right T, who is willing to work with you to even get some communication happening. To find a part that might be willing to step up and help coordinate things some.
I truly beleive this is possible.
I'm not sure you really need a super specialized T to do this. Just one thats willing to stick with you while you do this.
I know you post at another site. I dunno which one, maybe there are those there that have more experience that could help you figger what to do.
Its so hard being in pieces. But not all the pieces are bad or anything. There's lots of good ones, and there's strong ones.
Keep trying to get help Kerria, its goto be out there, and it sounds like you have those who love you, and your kids sound wonderful.
Take care,
Muffled
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