Posted by judy1 on January 26, 2005, at 12:42:13
he had surgery last week and never woke up. part of me is glad he is no longer in pain and hopefully at peace. he never went through any type of counselling so I worry that he didn't come to terms with his dying, and I especially worry about his wife and kids. I wish I was closer to help but I'm not. I'm not going to the funeral- I just can never go to those anymore, and part of me is feeling guilty. I know they are for the living- but his family has closed ranks and won't let anyone in. so just sad and tired and I feel- this just isn't fair.
thanks for listening, judy
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