Posted by AdaGrace on November 13, 2004, at 11:25:41
In reply to My Dad (long, though you might have known), posted by saw on November 12, 2004, at 3:51:58
Sabrina,
You are such a beautiful person, inside and out. It shows through you like a shining star. The thing I want to express to you is that I understand fully what you are going through. It is such a shock. Don't be suprized that just when you think you are getting over it, it comes full force back to you to kick you in the bum. But the times will get fewer and far between whene eventually, you just remember with fondness, and wait for the day with anticipation when you can meet again.
I so feel for you. You are much stronger than you think you are. To sing at your Dad's funeral is the ultimate gift you can give him, and the rest of your family. You such a special person. Doing all you can to be there for him at the end, and finding the strength to help him pass on. I know, God, I so know. Be thankful that you had the last 10 minutes.......Be so very thankful. There are some of us who didn't have that.Advice.........take it or don't
Do not question Why. Do not get angry at God.
It does you no good, trust me on this, I know.
Remember I have something to share with you later on regarding my own experiences, but not now, I will not take away from your own pain and put the attention on myself.
Celebrate the life you had, whether it be all that you hoped for, celebrate it. Find the joy. Find Peace. Be strong Sabrina, I know you can do it. Be strong, be so very strong. I'm sending you all my strong energy. You are in my thoughts and prayers, and I will be saying a silent prayer for passing Monday.(((((((Sabrina)))))))))
With Loving Thoughts,
AdaGrace
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