Posted by DepressedJoe on November 2, 2004, at 20:06:17
In reply to Re: My Girlfriend broke up with me hatefully, posted by dazedandconfused on November 2, 2004, at 19:46:30
She called me today and said she's already dating someone and that it's getting serious. I begged her to come back since we'd spent so much time together. She wont do that to him. What can I do?! I love her so much and it's killing me. I would've married her...how could she go so quickly to another?
joe
> Joe,
> I am so sorry you are going through this. In my opinion, breakups are one of the hardest things to deal with in life. And this sounds like it was a tough breakup. The first thing you need to do...whether the breakup is permanent or whether you get back together is to take care of yourself. Do you have some friends you can lean on and hang out with while this all sorts itself out? It sounds like she is not ready to communicate with you so I would try to respect her wishes. Wait for things to cool off before you try to work things out between you. If you are still having a lot of trouble dealing with this, you may want to contact a therapist who can help you.
>
> Hope this helps,
> dazed
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