Posted by partlycloudy on October 31, 2004, at 22:55:45
In reply to Re: Oh Crushed, I'm so sorry » crushedout, posted by Dinah on October 31, 2004, at 20:45:07
I am so sad, and so sorry. This is now behind you, and you have to pretend that everything is all right - that you dont feel his presence anymore.
Truth is, is that for me, the memories where vivid and intact. We could recreate entire meals here to mimic what we had experienced; but it was like a funeral.
Your grief will take its time. For me, sometimes a shaft of sunlight on the floor would be enough to send me off. Sometimes i would want tactile reinders of his presecence, We are all different in what triggers us, and what actions set us free of our past.
I'm still here for you.
Nancy
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