Posted by Shar on September 20, 2004, at 1:09:15
In reply to a time of loss, posted by Jai Narayan on September 19, 2004, at 20:48:47
...wishing I could be more poetic...
Yeah, you breath, in and out, you make your way through the turmoil, and Hold Onto Your Self as best you can.
No doubt there is grief, turmoil, sadness--and
....well, I wonder is that not how it should be? Would we want anything less at our own passing? That people would notice, remember, feel happy for what had transpired, feel sad at what didn't transpire...?
I think just acceptance is the key. Of course, to us, well, it's hard for us to accept anything! Because we have a chemical imbalance (or at least I do!). It's like another layer.
You ask, is all the tension gone? Well, I sure the heck hope so! That's what allows me to open my arms to death, to be so very willing to leave, to be in peace.
Highest and best regards,
Shar
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