Posted by Jai Narayan on July 3, 2004, at 20:40:58
In reply to One last chance, posted by sfmom on July 2, 2004, at 23:45:46
First off, breath.
Then know that once you get there you will be able to look at him and hold his hand.When I had the chance to say good by to someone I loved. I just held her hand, brushed her hair and told her I loved her. I was there....
that's all you have to do....just show up. I think you will know what to do. Your daughter will have questions....children's questions are always so deep and profound. Just tell her the truth. Tell her what you know and feel. She trusts you and loves you.
If you can just open your heart to the gifts you will receive at the end of your grandfathers life.
The process will lead you to its ultimate end.
Remember to breath.
poster:Jai Narayan
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