Posted by tterees on May 17, 2004, at 23:47:25
In reply to Social Worker and expectations, posted by Adoptme on May 17, 2004, at 3:31:43
My mother died in 1996. I live in a different state. She died on a Monday morning around 5:30 am. I had group that morning at 8:30 and so I went. I did not know where else to go (I love my mother dearly, always have, always will, death does not, can not, erase love). I went to group because my therapist makes me feel safe, makes me feel like I am at home. He did not let me down. He asked me to talk to the group, let them know, let them share. When I was done, he went around and asked if anyone had something to say. And this one girl/woman said "I had the best sex I've ever had this weekend." She proceeded to tell us about this man she had met. I could not believe it. What is sad, is that I am sure other members gave me support and strength, but what I remember is the one thoughtless remark. People are strange.
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