Posted by judy1 on June 4, 2002, at 21:46:48
In reply to Pre-wedding blues, posted by Kar on June 4, 2002, at 14:12:45
Depending on the size of your diocese and how strong you feel emotionally, I would make my feelings known to his supervisor- as a fairly devout Catholic at one point in my life, I truly don't remember that question coming up before my marriage (and the priest knew of my history too). Because of the recent scandals the Church is really trying not to offend it's flock- apparently this priest hasn't gotten the message. Since he is not marrying you, request he put n/a in whatever spot he found on the form -I still can't believe this!- and request that if the priest that's marrying you ask (and I bet he doesn't). Anyway, hope this helps and I also hope he didn't ruin what will be the happiest time of your life. Congratulations, Judy
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