Posted by Kar on June 4, 2002, at 21:05:02
In reply to what a drag. » Kar, posted by beardedlady on June 4, 2002, at 17:21:06
Thanks, Beardie. I don't suppose there are any (acceptable!) answers...
>I wouldn't join a club that wouldn't have me, as is, as a member.
But what if you're already a member? :(
ripped him a new one then and there.
No, not too blunt and precisely how I was feeling when he told us about our "odds" of remaining married, esp. after (gasp) living together! My fiance praised me for my restraint on this one as I calmly informed the priest that it was unfair to make sweeping generalizations (based on dated studies)about us and that we were not, by any means, just "statistics". Harrumph. But you know what? With the depression-thing, I became somewhat immobilized...I was too blown away and hurt. My mom says I should tell the priest how I feel...I wish it weren't too late to lie- I would! The thing is, this priest isn't the one marrying us, but he's doing all the paperwork...we're importing a priest.
I might have to just suck it up...
Thanks for the congrats :DKaren
poster:Kar
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